Mai & Earl

You are Invited

Witness and celebrate with us as we say

We do Again

Earl and Mai Wedding 2025

A celebration by the sea

With great joy and excitement, we invite you to join us in celebrating our Church Wedding. Our special day will begin with a beautiful ceremony, followed by a reception by the sea with sand and waves filled with delicious food, music, and dancing. We hope you can join us in celebrating our love and commitment.

Save the Date

December 8, 2025

December 8, 2025

Finer Details

Archdiocesan Shrine of San Pedro Calungsod

ceremony

ARCHDIOCESAN SHRINE OF SAN PEDRO CALUNGSOD

1:00 PM
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Ocean Terraces at Shangri-La Mactan Resort

reception

OCEAN TERRACES, SHANGRI-LA MACTAN RESORT

4:00 PM
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Wedding Timeline

  1. 01:00 PM

    WEDDING CEREMONY

  2. 2:00 PM

    CHURCH PHOTO SESSIONS

  3. 04:00 PM

    COCKTAIL

  4. 06:00 PM

    RECEPTION

  5. 09:00 PM

    BAND & PARTY

Our Love Story

The Beginning - December 2012
01

The Beginning - December 2012

Two hearts, one perfect moment

One Year of Forever - December 2013
02

One Year of Forever - December 2013

Celebrating our first chapter together

Young Love
03

Young Love

Making every study break count

Road Trip Romance
04

Road Trip Romance

Finding joy in every journey together

Taking Flight
05

Taking Flight

Our first adventure beyond home

Our Greatest Blessing - August 2014
06

Our Greatest Blessing - August 2014

Welcome to the world, Keanne

New Beginnings
07

New Beginnings

Graduating together as a family of three

Hong Kong Dreams - 2017
08

Hong Kong Dreams - 2017

Where fairytales came to life at Disneyland

Macao Memories - 2017
09

Macao Memories - 2017

Discovering new cultures hand in hand

Taiwan Wanderlust - 2019
10

Taiwan Wanderlust - 2019

Lost in the beauty of Formosa

The Question
11

The Question

Forever started with a YES!

I Do - 2021
12

I Do - 2021

Officially husband and wife

A New Chapter - 2022
13

A New Chapter - 2022

Building our future in the Lion City

Malaysian Escape - 2023
14

Malaysian Escape - 2023

Exploring neighboring horizons together

Winter Wonderland - 2024
15

Winter Wonderland - 2024

Our first snowfall, hand in hand

Korean Getaway - 2025
16

Korean Getaway - 2025

Creating new memories in Seoul

The Entourage

Parents of the Groom

  • MR. JUAN G. ABAQUITA JR.
  • MRS. MARILOU P. ABAQUITA

Parents of the Bride

  • MR. EMMANUEL T. BENJAMIN (†)
  • MRS. JIESEL P. BENJAMIN

Principal Sponsors

  • MR. MARLO DESQUITADO MRS. TERESITA DESQUITADO
  • MR. AVELINO MELENDRES JR. MRS. MARJINWIL MELENDRES

Cord

  • DR. JUDE AUGUSTINE OCARIZA
  • DR. KATE OCARIZA

Candle

  • ENGR. MARK LESTER ISIDRO
  • MRS. FAYE CHARLOTTE ISIDRO

Veil

  • MR. CARL CHRISTIAN RAY PANTIN
  • MRS. SHANICE PANTIN

Best Men

  • MIGUELITO ROBINSON
  • CARL DWIGHT ABAQUITA

Maids of Honor

  • RICA GERALDINE MONTECALVO
  • KRISTEL TATREENA GADAPAN

Groomsmen

  • EMMANUEL BENJAMIN JR.
  • ANTONIO CORTEZ JR.
  • JHAMES CLARK DESQUITADO
  • CHARLES GABRIEL LAPUERTA
  • SHIED FRANCIS BACASNO (Bridesman)

Bridesmaids

  • CAROLINE SENO
  • ROSE ANN BENJAMIN
  • JOAN BENJAMIN
  • JHOANNA THERESE DESQUITADO

Ring Bearer

  • KEEVE EANNE ABAQUITA

Coin Bearer

  • YUAN NNYAM PAJANTOY

Bible Bearer

  • YANNIS ZACHARY PAJANTOY

Flower Girls

  • NANIKA ARYAN PARAGUSO
  • FRANCESCA BLAIR ISIDRO

STRICTLY FORMAL ATTIRE

The Vibe

LINEN

CREAM

BEIGE

Principal Sponsors — Gentlemen
Barong in Cream color
Principal Sponsors — Ladies
Long Gown/Long Dress in shades of Champagne Satin with lace details
Guests
Long Dress/Gown and Barong/Suit
Guest Notes
It could be beach formal — linen, cotton, sundresses, barong or camisa de chino with flair.
Footwear
Our reception will be Outdoors — bring your comfiest shoes! Choose footwear that's ready for grass, laughter, and lots of dancing. We hope you'll dance the night away!
Principal Sponsors Outfit Illustration
Guests Outfit Illustration

We kindly encourage our guests

To wear these colors for our special day

Gift Guide

Since love is the heart of this day, your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. Should you still wish to honor us with a token of kindness, a small envelope for our future together would be a cherished blessing.

Capture Us

Help us capture the moment and share the love by using our wedding hashtag.

#MaeNagmamahalanJohn

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I bring a plus one?

We'd love to have everyone, but we're keeping things intimate with just the names on the invitations. Think of it as our cozy beach party with all our favorite people!

Are there any modes of transportation provided?

Yes! We have a shuttle from the church to the beachside celebration, and another from the Shangri-La lobby to the party spot. You can also use your own car—just refer to the map and location above.

Will there be parking space at the reception venue?

Yep! We've got you covered with a drop-off area and parking spots. No need to stress about where to leave your ride!

Mobile-free Ceremony

Let's live in the moment together! We're asking everyone to put their phones away during the ceremony so we can all soak up the magic. Our photographer will capture all the beautiful moments for you!

Can I sit wherever I want?

For the church ceremony, grab any seat you like! At the reception, we've got a seating plan to help you mingle with awesome people. Trust us, we're pretty good matchmakers when it comes to fun dinner conversations!

What time should we arrive?

Come early, stay late! Please arrive about 30 minutes before the ceremony starts. Factor in some island time for traffic, and you'll be golden. We can't wait to see you!

Save Your Seat

We are so excited to celebrate this special day with our favorite people! Please let us know if you'll be joining us.

Click the button below and fill up the form and submit.

Please RSVP by

November 8

See You There

Questions? Reach out to us.

Mae Ann Abaquita

+63 977 063 2374

Earl John Abaquita

+63 905 520 2925